When prayers are answered

Why I am surprised by answers to prayers?  He may be a God of surprises, but shouldn't we expect and anticipate an answer when we talk with Him?  When we share with Him our hearts, our desires, our needs, our cares?

I've heard that there are three answers to prayer - yes, no, wait. 

 I think I've had all three several times recently. Did I tell you what's happened?

 

bright cheerful daffodils are brightening the grounds, all around the front garden, in the orchard ... a wonderful gift last August from a friend!

bright cheerful daffodils are brightening the grounds, all around the front garden, in the orchard ... a wonderful gift last August from a friend!

- All those seemingly unsolvable problems from 6 - 9 months ago have each been answered well - but I had to learn to wait!  Among them - the cottage was sold, the health issues have disappeared, and other answers too, solving several problems 

- bookings are beginning to happen, people are coming on retreat and we are watching in humble amazement as the Lord blesses those who come 

- a significant donation has been given (from the USA) so that the chapel and the parking area can be finished, work which will be done in April. How we thank God!

- another much smaller donation has been pledged, which enables the office to be finished

- there are a handful of regular supporters/Friends of the Vine, supporting the work through monthly giving. Not nearly enough yet, but it's a start. I'm being paid again after several months of no income at all

- a full house for the Volunteers Week, with people coming to work on getting the house and grounds ready for the summer. They are going to be sponsored for their physical hours of work (3 -4 hrs each afternoon) and the money raised will go towards the purchase of the summer house, a much-needed further quiet space for retreatants to use. Join in sponsoring them  - without doing any physical work you can help towards the project!  CLICK HERE TO SPONSOR A VOLUNTEER!

- a single donation to enable someone to come on retreat for 2 nights who otherwise couldn't afford it and another payment for a specific individual to come for a few nights

- some rest, refreshment and renewal for us. We escaped for a week, the first time we have had a week away as just the two of us for over a year. It was wonderful; we were really blessed especially through some very helpful books - we both highly recommend "The Day is Yours - slow moving spirituality in a fast moving world" by Ian Stackhouse. It's being worked out in new daily rhythms of grace applied to our life at Mays Farm! 

- the provision of a Christian part-time housekeeper! Realising it's no longer possible for me to cook, housekeep, garden, as well as lead retreats, provide spiritual direction and hospitality, now that there are more people here. So we are grateful for the unexpected provision of Rachel, who spent her teenage years in a Christian retreat centre, attends a local Vineyard church and goes to New Wine and has been on several retreats herself. Please pray for her as she begins with us on Monday March 31  (part time, 2-3 hours every Monday - Friday)

- you have been praying and supporting us! THANK YOU.

Thank you for your prayers thus far. Please keep praying - 

the ministry can't do this without you!

 

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Upcoming Retreats: 

Have a peek at our website - some of the most popular retreats are

 Hotel de Chocolate (click for link)

and SEND YOUR VICAR AWAY - or your pastor or minister (click for link)

 

SOME OTHER DATES for your diary: 

Individual retreats & Away Days 

May 3 - 30, June 2-6

Available for you to come for a night or three to be rested, refreshed and renewed. Join in the rhythm of prayers if you would like, but take plenty of time to BE and to 'remain in The Vine'

Spiritual Direction available on request

STOP'N'BE! June 13-15 in association with the national retreat event

part of the national retreat events for the weekend of June 13 - 15 2014

A time to step away from normal routines and try some space and sanctuary.

Ideal for those who have not experienced a retreat before.

A guided retreat but with plenty of down time.

And breakfast in bed if you would like!

arrive Friday June 13th afternoon, depart Sunday June 15th.

48 hours of time to BE!

 

WRITERS' WEEKEND RETREAT

Friday July 11 - Sunday July 13

A weekend of peace and quiet!

If you're a writer: time and space to get on with your opus magnum; chat with others over meals for further inspiration; encourage and support each other in getting down to the actual words on a page! And morning and evening hemming of the day with a guided devotional time to provide spiritual nourishment.

If you just want space, time, peace ... this is the weekend for you! Breakfast in bed, time to relax, read, pray .... AND WRITE!

Your hosts are each published writers.

Maximum of 5 people. Private en-suite rooms. Full board. 

 

Available for individual retreats and Away Days

July 14-July 31

 

Available for Individual retreats and Away Days

August 1 - 27

 

THE VIA FRANCIGENA

THE VIA FRANCIGENA

THE PILGRIMAGE IN TUSCANY

September 1-8 still has spaces available if you would like to come on this holiday with a difference - click HERE for information

Available for individual retreats

Sept 8 - Oct 31

 

WRITERS' WEEKEND RETREAT

Sept 19-21

A weekend of peace and quiet!

If you're a writer: time and space to get on with your opus magnum; chat with others over meals for further inspiration; encourage and support each other in getting down to the actual words on a page! And morning and evening hemming of the day with a guided devotional time to provide spiritual nourishment.

If you just want space, time, peace ... this is the weekend for you! Breakfast in bed, time to relax, read, pray .... and WRITE!

Your hosts are each published writers.

Maximum of 5 people. Private en-suite rooms. Full board. 

COULD YOU BE A FRIEND?

Friends. Everyone likes having good friends. We know that we wouldn't be here without the help of friends. Friends who have planted, painted, prayed, propped up and played in this place. Friends who have been there when needed. 

"A friend is always loyal, and a brother is born to help in time of need." Proverbs 17:17 (NLT)

Mays Farm - over a hundred years ago

Mays Farm - over a hundred years ago

Mays Farm today

Mays Farm today

Friends who've been friends forever. Friends made since being here. The richness of a diversity of friendship. 

"When Job prayed for his friends, the LORD restored his fortunes. In fact, the LORD gave him twice as much as before!" Job 42:10 (NLT)

Friends laugh, friends enable, friends support, friends pray. They rejoice, they mourn - 

"Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." Roms 12:5 (NIV) 

And so the FRIENDS OF THE VINE is a much-needed group of people who support this ministry of retreats.

BUT WE NEED MORE FRIENDS in order to survive and provide this place for sanctuary and sustenance  -  a place which is really being appreciated by those who come. 

"Thank you so much for such a wonderful few days of rest, refreshment and restoration. Before I came away I asked people to pray that God would speak and that I would have ears to listen and a heart to obey. These prayers have been answered, along with many more. Thank you so much. May the Lord bless you richly in your work here."   (Vicar, North West England)

"I  was treated like a princess!" (Vicar, Essex) 

"A real treat - what a wonderful places to come and BE. Thank you!" (Writer, N London) 

"I feel this has been a bit of a 'wake-up' call to both being aware of and receiving God's grace. It has been such a lovely, peaceful and blessed weekend - thank you so much!"  (Chocolate consumer on the Hotel de Chocolate retreat!)

COULD YOU BE A FRIEND OF THE VINE too?

And join in this very special group of friends?

- receive a monthly update of news and views, of praise and prayer items

- notifications of upcoming events, retreats and pilgrimage dates before general release

- priority booking whenever possible

- free retreat nights (see below for details)

- invitation to the annual Open Day/Friends' event

- be a part of the this vital ministry, enabling people to take time out to BE with God, especially worn-out wearied clergy

- know that you are enabling Kingdom work to carry on! 

 

WAYS TO BECOME A FRIEND OF THE VINE

- donate monthly to the work of Ministries by Design 

Every little helps - even £5 each month makes a big difference, when lots of people do it!

A minimum of £50 a month entitles you to 1 free night each year of donation

- make a one-off donation towards the work of the ministry

- or a one-off donation towards a specific item 

 

one donation was specifically ear marked for a quarter page ad in the Church Times 

£175 pays for 2 nights retreat for someone who otherwise could not come

£150 pays for the windows to be cleaned

£750 pays for the next tank of LPG gas

be creative and think outside the box - what could YOU do?

 

NEW! SPONSOR THE VOLUNTEERS

March 31st - April 4th,  10 people  are coming on retreat for free.

In return, they will be working for 3 hours each afternoon. Sponsor their working hours in order to raise the funds to provide a summer house in the orchard as another much-needed space for people to use for retreating, for praying, for writing, for reading...

 

TO BECOME A FRIEND OF THE VINE

click on this link:

http://www.ministriesbydesign.org/giving/

You can also give online through 

if you are a UK resident and 

if you are a US donor

 

You are a vital part of this ministry - your support and donation enable it to continue.  Please might you prayerfully consider becoming a Friend of the Vine.

Thank you

 

FOR DETAILS OF RETREATS, DATES AND AVAILABILITY CLICK HERE

- including the next Writers' Weekends, Hotel de Chocolate retreat, Pilgrimages,

Individual Retreats, and "Stop'n'Be" 

 

 

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A Taste of Grace. Just for you.

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And through it all - the theme of grace. God's extravagant grace, extended to us through the cross of Christ, into our everyday situations. The Psalmist urged us to "Taste and see that the Lord is good," so we did. And He is. 

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It far exceeded my expectations

"A special weekend"   "A lovely peaceful and blessed weekend. A wake-up call to both being aware of and receiving God's grace. Thank you!"

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Bring your women’s small group or your women in leadership

Take time to slow down and taste the ‘chocolate’ of God’s grace – it will bring a smile to your face and joy to your soul as you are enrobed (sorry!) by God’s love and grace

This retreat can be tailor made to your group

and can be held on dates to suit you  

Hotel de Chocolate Weekend Retreat

We are chocolated-out, we who came on the Hotel de Chocolate retreat! There were chocolate desserts. There was cocoa powder in the beef. Chocolate shower gels and body lotions. Chocolate brownies at tea time. And a glorious lingering heavenly chocolate tasting session with chocolate notes on things such as aroma, waxing and plant transference.

At one stage there was even chocolate syrup on our hands ...

There was breakfast in bed. Time for reading (dozing) in front of a roaring log fire. Aromatherapy scented hot towels. And one brave person went jogging in the rain to burn off some calories. That rain precluded enjoying hot chocolate around the fire pit in the evening; but someone else had brought a bottle of prosecco to share so we had that instead indoors!

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BRING YOUR GROUP TO A HOTEL DE CHOCOLATE CELEBRATION!

 

  •  two nights in a glorious 17thC house
  •  up to 10 people in twin rooms (all with private bathrooms) with all meals & snacks provided
  • 5 devotional sessions on God's extravagant  grace 
  • journal for each participant
  • all you do is turn up and everything is done for you! A weekend (or midweek) to taste and see that the Lord is good. You will go home full of grace and chocolate!

 

Just £195 per person (single occupancy) or £165 (sharing a twin room). Minimum of 5 people.

 

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